I see this a lot now. Females love taking back the same guy that hurt them over and over and think just because he came back and apologized it's all good. NO! It's not. VICE VERSA. When someone fucks up once, twice, three times....you start to notice a pattern. He/she is not going to change. If you keep rewarding bad behavior NOTHING is going to change. It's like dealing with kids. If a child does something bad or out of line and the parent gets mad but doesn't do anything about it....the child will do it again! I can understand somethings are small and can be worked out. But to keep taking back a liar, cheater, disrespectful person...then you're the dumb one. Not them. I think a lot of people just love to say "oh we been together for 6 years"....yeah 6 terrible years! Time doesn't matter! How the person treats you does.