-get you a MAN who wants you for more than your beautiful curves. Stop messing around with a so called "man" who doesn't have his shit together. Stop taking back these triphline ass little boys. If he did you wrong, LEAVE HIS ASS. There is no need to bring that negativity back into your life. At some point you have to let go of what you may have thought you once loved. I don't care how long you two have been dating, been in a relationship or have known eachother. There is always another man out there who will have more respect for you, love you more, and most importantly..is more appreciative. It's okay to start off as friends once you two first meet. I hate when people rush into relationships only based off of physical attraction. Who cares if he gets mad because you do not want to have sex with him right away. OH FUCKING WELL. Get a man. and stop looking for love, stop being so dependent on that triphline ass "man" to get his shit together so you two can work. In other words, if his ass has played you more than once, and you two have been through it plenty of times..(the arguments, the cheating, the lies) but yet you still feel the need to hang around in hopes that he will get it together and start loving you correctly. STOP!! Stop waiting around for him, because he will not get it together anytime soon. A man will only do what you allow him to do. If you know he's been cheating and fucking around but yet you still take him back...his ass will CONTINUE to do it!! Why? Because your dumbass keeps taking him back, your allowing that behavior! At some point you are going to realize that it's just a never ending cycle. and who has the time and energy to argue all the damn time. or to even have trust issues? Who wants to deal with that nonsense in a relationship! A relationship is more than sex, physical attraction. Understand who you are getting into a relationship with. Understand each others intentions! and if you are in a relationship...obviously your intensions should be the same! My intentions are to have someone to grow with, build with, learn from. Someone who I can trust and grow beside. I want a man who has the intentions on being with me for a lifetime, not just a few months. and even we don't last a lifetime...well so be it. Atleast we did have those intentions from the start but maybe things just didn't work out over a period of time. But understand that it is okay to argue. You argue and then compromise. You don't argue about the same bullshit over and over! Once you argue about it..it should be done and over with. Be a woman to your man. Stop with all the "I'm crazy" bullshit! It's not cute. No man wants to deal with a crazy ass female every damn day. Be his soft touch, his warmth! Be his woman that he can come home to and feel at ease. I wouldn't dare want my boyfriend/husband to not want to come home after work because he knows he has to deal with my "crazy ass" All that is unnecessary. And it will only push him away. It will push him away towards another female...a female who he feels will give him that warmth and comfort. and if the shit is not working out, LET IT GO! Stop giving these triphline ass little boys a thousand chances. Love is so unintentional and so unexpected. and it only comes to those who least expect it. Stop "searching" for love. or looking for a "bae" Work on yourself, gather yourself together. I strongly believe everything that happens in our lives is all in God's timing. Stop rushing and be patient ❤️
