there is a difference between someone who wants you, and someone who would do anything to keep you. how can you tell when someone is really showing interest in you? are they just obsessed with your looks? is it the materialistic things you have? Personally....I don't care about the money, the car, or what clothing brands he chooses to wear. I care about his mind. His body. His health. His goals. I believe in encouragement. Making someone feel good about themselves. Constantly letting them know how much you appreciate them. I just want his time. His conversation when I need it. His words. Sometimes all you want is that one person to tell you they love you and everything is going to be okay. a simple hug. I don't need the gifts, the surprises. Those things don't impress me. I just want that warm feeling knowing he will always stand by me.